The Case for BEING DIFFERENT When Using Classified Ads Sites
Here’s what most dudes do immediately after signing up for a classified personal ads website…
- Create a basic profile – one with just enough info to tell women a little bit about them.
- Go take a look at the profiles of the other men to get an idea of what they’re doing so they can copy it.
- Immediately adjust profile to mimic other dudes profiles.
On the surface, that seems like the smart idea. After all, if everyone is doing something, it must be the right way…right? That would be a good idea…if 95% of the men online weren’t failing miserably at picking up chicks. So if you copy what they’re doing, you will also obtain the same results…which are nothing short of continuing on a sexless and girlfriend-less life.
Don’t Be Like 95% of Them: Be Different and Stand Out on Classified Personal Ads Sites
Now that you understand why being just like all the rest, let’s start talking about how you can be different. There are 2 types of “different” – good and bad. Bad different is when you do something even worse than what the other guys are doing to stand out. For example, you go on a hate filled tirade in your profile, bashing your ex-girlfriend, your mom, your boss, President Obama, etc.
Good different is when you creatively think of ways to make women notice you without thinking you’re a jerk, pervert, or an annoyance. There are 3 ways online you can do this…
- Sending emails that catch her attention right away and make her ignore the other messages just so she can open yours.
- Typing up profile content that makes women curious to know more about you.
- Indulging her in some entertaining conversation that is not immature or sex related.
Guys consistently make this one big mistake…jumping right into sex talk. It’s not a good idea even if you’re using an adult sex classified site. Unless she brings sex up first, you shouldn’t even talk about it in the first discussion you have with her. Just because you’re on a sex site doesn’t mean she doesn’t want to get to know your personality first.
If you get into a discussion with a girl and you’re friendly and funny without being perverted off the bat, you’ll be different…in a good way. She’ll immediately stop chatting with the other guys (all of which are probably talking about the size of their penis and what they want to do to her) to talk to you. The point is to give women a reason to want to chat with you. The best way to do that is by being different in a good way.