So, you have a friend who is a sexy hottie and you decide to take things to another level. You always wanted a piece of that sexy body, and now it’s yours for the taking. Things were great but soon your friend starts to get bored with the sex buddy situation. Just great, what can you do now? The last thing you want to do is lose your friend, so the best thing to do to revive your relationship and bring back the good, fun vibes. You might not want things to get too intimate, because sending the wrong message about your feelings can cause problems it with your relationship. Here are some excellent tips to make sex with your sex buddy fun again.
1. Try talking a little more about sex
While you don’t have to speak directly about yourselves, sex talk can sometimes be fun. Since you are friends, and the shared common interests, talk a little more about it. You can engage in discussions about all your previous sexual encounters and why you enjoyed them. Mention all the adventurous desires you want to pursue later on. This is a sure way to stir up some strong sexual feelings. Don’t be shy to your buddy; after all you’re depending on each other to fulfill other’s sexual needs.
2. More foreplay
Maybe sex nowadays is not what it used to be. A little extra foreplay might do the trick. Don’t hold back your lustful desires. Passionately explore each other’s bodies with your tongues and fingers. Try to do this as long as you can before penetration. Foreplay is great for igniting sexual sensations. This will surely add some juice to your sex buddy affairs.
3. Have an adventure
Erotic adventures can be fun. And who best to join in your adventures than your friend. Adventures can be anything, but will be mostly fun. Sex in the shower, on the floor, in the closet, even on the outside, is all adventurous ways to revive your sexual relationship.
4. Play sex games
There’s nothing like a good ‘strip me’ card game to add some fun with sex. In fact, any game can be sexual, so you can play just about anything you like, even computer games. To make things more fun, give little sexual tokens as prizes and awards. Sexual games can get really naughty, so don’t be afraid to add your little lustful tweaks.
5. Limit sexual and contours
Unless you’re in a serious relationship, there’s no points having sex with your sex buddy every single day. Being in each other’s face on a daily basis can cause your relationship to get boring. Try to give each other some space and maybe have sex 2 to 3 times each week. If you need a sexual partner every day, maybe it’s time to find a long-term partner for a serious relationship. The longer you wait for sex, the greater your desire will be, hence more fun and pleasurable when you meet up.
6. Link up with other sex buddies.
After all, you are simply sex buddies, right? If you are on the kinky side, it won’t hurt to have another buddy join in on your little adventures. While you might not want to be promiscuous, having good sexual relations with someone else is not at all a bad idea. Just like two heads are better than one, two sex buddies are sure to be more pleasing and fun than one.
7. Talk dirty
Try talking dirty sometimes. Instead of getting straight to the point of sex, how about a good, sexy argument? Solely for foreplay, make every other word you say to each other filled with lustful words. You can even make a contest of it to see who has the dirtiest mouth. This might not suit everyone, but if it suits you, it would be a great way to liven up your sex buddy relationship.
8. How about masturbation?
Sounds weird, but take on a challenge. Masturbate with each other instead of having sex. Just seeing and feeling each other without penetration, can cause great sexual excitement. Finding other ways to pleasure each other can be passionately fun.
All the above are awesome ways for having a fun sex buddy relationship. Make the most of your sex buddy and satisfy each other’s sexual needs. If you get bored with each other, your sex buddy agreement might come to an end. Be a little more spontaneous and creative. Do more fun things that you never did before. It is time for sexual pleasure’s and experimenting. Just a few adjustments can add a little excitement to your life and rekindle the liveliness that was once shared between you.