With online dating comes online flirting which can earn you a successfully following from the ladies you have won over. But that happens only when you don’t make yourself sound like a creepy pervert or sex maniac who thinks the internet is full of equally sex starved women. Online dating can be a success with more than 90% of couple who engage in it often ending up meeting each other. Whether it’s just a casual flirt or a more lasting relationship you are looking for, here are some sure tips that makes online dating a rewarding online activity for people who wants to use cyberspace to flirt with a short list of women one of whom could be your soul mate.
Honesty remains the best policy
Cyberspace is full of people’s profiles that lie about their age, income, education, marital status, family life, career, etc. But stand out and be different. If you are looking for a serious relationship with the women you find interesting online, nothing beats being honest to yourself and to the women you talk to. One thing you don’t want your potential partner to have is to develop a suspicion that you are not being honest and that can be creepy in any relationship. Just be yourself and you may be surprised that your unique qualities could get enough to get the ladies wanting to know more about you. If you had an ex-wife and kids, say it. You want to start a relationship and you shouldn’t do it based on lies.
Look and sound wholesome
“Look good and sound honest”
Being honest does not mean you should show your worst self online. Post your best photographs, preferably in the company of your friends and loved ones. Be sure to write in flawless grammar and the correct choice of words as much as possible. If you’re not a native English speaker, say so from the start and your target audience will be more forgiving. Don’t post sexually suggestive photos of yourself in your profile page. Not only is it in bad taste, you could offend the sensibilities of a decent woman and may even get you banned from the site.
Laughter is the best way to a woman’s heart
Spice up your online chat and posts with humor. It is said that some of the most successful dates are about enjoying each other’s company and the same applies to online dating. Anything as serious as discussing your work, unless it’s about lampooning your boss, should be avoided. The last you want is to be a bore when flirting online. Actually, you can be a flirt if you’re boring the ladies. Crack a few jokes and be light-hearted. But having said that, try to know the person’s religion and culture at the other end. Some jokes can also offend. Sex jokes are best not used.
Control your sex urges
“Control your urges and be patient”
You may want to meet the woman to bed with but unless your dating site is a sex harem, it is best not to sound like a sex maniac by being obvious about your intentions. That makes you creepy to the ladies and a turn-off. You don’t do that on a real date and online dating is no different. Never ask outright where and when you can meet after just a few days of getting to know each other. That’s often the mark of a pervert who wants to bed with any women they meet on the street.
Having an active online presence means responding to new messages posted by the ladies. One of the worst offenses you can make in cyberspace is leaving your audience in the dark for days waiting for a reply. You don’t do that on a real date, so be ready to make a quick response online as if you are dating the person face to face. Being unresponsive can already tell a woman that you don’t care and may hint at your performance in bed. If you can’t be responsive, you’re better off not attempting an online dating service.
Don’t be too talkative
Women don’t like their men as loquacious as they are. Never say more than is necessary. Just like in a face to face meeting, know when to shut up and listen. Being wordy in your responses can reveal a pompous self-worth as if you expect the other person to have the time to read everything you say. Intimate details of your life may be interesting but going into unnecessary storytelling can bore the other person. Don’t bother retelling your first crush or sex encounter when you were in high school or college as this can already hint that you are looking to recreate the experience with the woman you’re talking to online. Depending on her values, you can start sounding creepy when you do.
Responding to your ladies online with just the right amount of information that’s honest, wholesome, spiced with humor and without sounding like a sex maniac can get you to flirt with enough following in an online dating service. Treat the service like you would in a real date and you can be sure your to have a rewarding experience with online dating.