Some women use jealousy to control weak willed men. It is known that men can get jealous easily for various reasons, especially when it comes to their wives or kids. Just a little threat from a woman can send a man bowing to her knees or walking through the door in utter rage. It can be a really tricky for a man to figure out the motives of his woman, and even some will find that she cannot be pleased. Quite often though, women will not mess around with very confident and strong minded men who place their feet down on their opinions. But if she knows that you are weak-minded, be prepared for her to wrap you around her fingers like a twine of hair. Jealously is strongly correlated with fear of loss. And she will play with your fear of losing her. Here are three common ways that women use jealousy to control emotional weak men.
1. By flirting with other men
This is probably the most common way in which a woman will try to control men. Nothing will hurt their ego more than seeing their wife or girlfriend flirting with another man. This is especially true if he is a rather handsome looking man. They will try to keep the flirting subtle but noticeable, and watch them burn with jealousy. Sometimes she might even pretend to be flirting with someone else. Women are known to text or call themselves and pretend that they are flirting with men. They even hide letters (written by themselves), send a self-email, another self-made message, even buy chocolate and flowers for herself, to put you on the jealous side. Other times, she might mention the names of men who don’t exist – as if by accident. If a woman knows that she can control you, she will use this as a means of getting your full attention and ultimately having her way. This method is generally used by women to get material things from their men or to get more love and attention.
2. Going out with friends
Maybe she goes out casually, infrequently or regularly, but if she wants to make you jealous. Women know that men don’t like uncertainty. They do not like what they cannot see, and in this case, it’s his woman’s whereabouts. While trying to make a man jealous, a woman will meet up with her girlfriends or even male friends more often than she usually does. Worst of all, she will not share all the details of her whereabouts with you. She might even stay out later than usual and visit bars and places she never visited before. This is sure to make any guy jealous. During this time, don’t expect her to answer your calls when checking up on her. Men will get jealous and try to find out exactly what his woman is up to. Most likely he will feel that she is secretly seeing someone else and trying to hide it from him. Things are however, not always as they seem. You can bet your last dollar that she is just playing around with you and not actually seeing someone else. Women are far less likely than men to go all the way in their pursuit to prove a point. They will often play around and test the waters to see your reaction. But eventually, it’s her way or the highway, and if your will is weak- it’s going to be her way for sure.
3. Suddenly becoming a pretty princess
If your woman has suddenly started taking a new interest in her appearance, chances are she is trying to make you jealous or she is actually seeing someone else. Men know that women often dress lovely, adorn themselves with jewelry and try to look beautiful to be more attractive to men. Women know this, and will pay special attention to themselves to make their man feel jealous. Prepare for her to start adding more sexy clothing and shoes and even add some super sexy lingerie too. Women will do all of this and pretend not to be interested in their man in order to make them jealous. You will be convinced that she is doing all this because she is seeing someone else and the last thing any man will want is someone else to notice his beautiful wife. Men who are in long term relationships tend to get jealous about their woman’s physical appearance.
Women are smart and some men are quite gullible. Ladies will have their own way somehow, and the best way they find to do this is by making their man jealous. They will use their bodies and situations to make a man address their wants and needs. There is nothing wrong with this; women are just more subtle by nature. They may not come forthwith and say things that are on their minds all the time, but if they are unhappy for some reason and want to have their feelings addressed, then prepare for a jealous ride.